I have been waiting what seemed like forever to get Oliver's pictures back. Today was the day. I was so excited to look at the picture of Oli and Mickey Mouse together. I had handed in all the paperwork that said what color background you wanted for the picture and if you wanted something special in the picture with your child there was a blank to write what that something special was to be. I filled in the blank: Mickey Mouse.
So, I look at the pictures when I picked Oliver up and instead of Mickey with my smiling Oliver, it was Goofy sitting there in that picture. Now. This wouldn't be so disappointing if I didn't specifically write "Mickey Mouse" on the special paper that was sent home for pictures. I wrote "Mickey Mouse" because I wanted Mickey (not Goofy) in the picture with my son. I wanted Mickey because that is who Oliver loves. That is who Oliver takes to school just about every day. Mickey is his baby.
Oliver has a stuffed Goofy and he is super cute. If OUR Goofy was in the picture, I would *almost* be okay with the photo. But. It's not OUR Goofy. It's some random Goofy that the photographer has or something.
So now, I look at this picture - and it's the best of three shots of Oliver - and I want to love that picture - but then there's someone else's Goofy. Not Oliver's Mickey. It makes me sad.
So then. I have to be "that parent" that asks why isn't Mickey Mouse in the picture with my kid? It almost sounds silly as I ask the questions...I'm trying NOT to be cranky about it - but I did write "Mickey Mouse" on that blank line!
If we are given the opportunity to "fill-in-the-blank" and then it's ignored....well that's just not right.
I'm just disappointed. I waited for these pictures. I knew they were going to be SO cute! Oliver & Mickey.
Oliver has never really carried a blankie or had a 'lovey' until now...and it's Mickey Mouse.
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| Look how cute he is! |
Do you see what I'm saying? This was going to be my special memory of Oliver and his baby Mickey. And now it's Goofy. Every time I look at the picture, I smile because Oli is so CUTE...and then I see Goofy and it bums me out.
You have to understand this. Right?